[Sir_Nathan]

[CurvyAsh]

I've found that though I come across as quite, well if not bossy but in charge of things, I have a seriously submissive tendancy that very few people tend to notice. I've always been the sort of person that apologises in most situations, even if I'm not in the wrong.
Im also a very rule abidding sort of girl and will always try to avoid arguments and trouble. This is probably because of the sense of guilt I get when I don't get caught, especially when others do. Even when I was very young it used to keep me awake at night because I knew I was wrong. Then again the thrill I get from doing something a bit naughty does get my heart beating very fast.
There are a few other things that kind of hinted strongly at it, like fantasies always involving some sort of physical restriction.
It was only when I stubbled across and Dom's blog that I really realised that I had these submissive leanings which only seem to be getting stronger.
It took me several weeks to go back though seeing as the first post I ever read on it was about clamps etc and it scared me a fair bit.

[stu_ful]

Does a sub need to be punished? Hmmmmm Strongly resisting the urge to go all philisophical here. .... Rrrrrr oooookkaayyy

Ummmm technically no a sub does not NEED to be punished. Being a sub is not necessarily being masochistic. However in practice it is very rare for a sub not to be punished even if just on principle because it solidifies and demonstrates the whole Dom/sub relationship.


Besides I have yet to meet the perfect sub. Though I'm sure if there is one out there it's a she. Women are always right. They constantly tell me so. LOL

[stu_ful]

[CurvyAsh]

I realised that I missed a few things out in my first post, like my desire to appease people. My indecissiveness incase whoever I'm with at the time would rather do something different, I always end up watching the film that whoever I with wants to see, or going to wherever they want to go etc to ensure that they always enjoy things
I would never say I'm a pain slut or have a need to be punished, but when I do misbehave I need absolution of some sort.
Though some pain would be appreciated now and again

[thinksexy]

[cindy]

Welcome to the LL, CurvyAsh.

I feel the same way you do on some things, and I am very easy to please. My husband would tell you otherwise, but that is a different matter.

And, Nathan... when am I ever naughty?
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Any piece of clothing can be sexy with a quietly passionate woman inside it.

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[Sir_Nathan]

[Precious Pet]

Welcome to the LL CurvyAsh. Welcome in particular to our little Kinky Korner. I'm sure you'll enjoy it here.

As you've already found out, any questions are always answered as openly and honestly as possible. So never be afraid to ask. Just sit back, relax, and have fun.

precious. x

[Sir_Nathan]

[baby]

Ugg!
What if you truly don't know which art care to master?
That you only know you have feelings, urges...that were not there before?

Is it wise to be a sub first...to absorb all the info you can? Or are the dom traits already possessing your body?

Are you saying we might be both Nathan...that the want to dominate my man meat is perfectly natural?...notice I said natural...not normal!
I have a thousand more questions, yet right now my pretty little head is swimming...with naughtiness...
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Wanna Play????

[Sir_Nathan]

[cindy]

[stu_ful]

[Caveat]

Sub, dom, submissive, dominating...my head is spinning.

I'm a little of everything, depending on the moment, methinks.

C
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Keep it light, keep it lusty.