[sexyleslie]

I'm constantly having fantasies of having sex with my father. I've just spent the weekend at home and I lusted after him the whole time. I masturbated many times imagining him fucking me, or me sucking his cock, or masturbating him, or him going down on me.

He is attractive and sexy, and I know he has a beautiful cock because I saw it when I was young. I just would like to have sex with him. It'll never happen. Anyone else have the same feelings toward their father?

[brookeaby1]

So you don't know me but ask any of the regulars and they'll tell you I'm a "sweetheart" with that said:
You need help. There is a REASON it's illegal to marry a member of your family. Not only is it psychologically disturbing to have an intimate relationship with a close family member, ESPECIALLY your parent, but it's also considered disgusting by societal standards and is the leading cause of several forms of mental retardation and development disabilities in children. Fragile X syndrome is one of those diseases that is most common in progeny of incestuous relationships.
I know I know, you say it will never happen, but I doubt the 16 year old girl who made the phone call that started the raid on the mormon sect in Utah/Arizona thought she was going to be married forcibly to a 50 year old man and then raped in the "temple" while the other members of the cult watched. (Recent news story, you should look it up.)
No matter how careful you are, there's still a chance of pregnancy in ANY relationship. My uncle's second set of twins are condom AND birth control babies. She was on antibiotics which made the birth control not work so they used a condom as well and it broke ergo, set of twins numero dos.
This should never happen, and in order for you to have a healthy REAL relationship with a man who is ABLE to be a real part of your life, you should start seeing a shrink. Even fantasizing about it gross and if your father ever found out he'd either act on it, ignore it AND you, or get really angry and stop speaking to you which could make your mom or siblings (assuming you have any of course) ask questions that I doubt seriously you would want to answer.
This is just my two ( more like twenty) cents worth.
Brooke.

[pinksapphire]

OMG Freud would have a field day with this one....

[KROCK]

It is like the "Oedipus Complex" in men. Most children to harbor deep hidden sexual feelings towards their parents, though it does sound like it is more prominent in you. It makes sense that you would be attracted to such a dominant, manly, and caring figure in your life. My only advice to you would to not be ashamed of these feelings, but it would probably be better if you did not pursue them.
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[Jonathan_Philips]

[stu_ful]

Okay is it sick of me that I want to see JP dancing the jig while the fire burns. Of course it has nothing to do with my father so that should make it okay. Right? ... Right?


Ok ok Yes roasting the marshmellows and eating them hot off of Precioius Pet's naked ass was a bit over the top but c'mon ... I was hungry.

[Jonathan_Philips]

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[Alexandra_M]

Wow what a tough one to answer. In every child's development, there is a stage that he/she has sexual fantasies about a parental figure. Because of the strictures of society, this usually translates as the best friends mother or older brother, but the roots are much closer to home.
In a healthy relationship a girl tests her wings so to speak on her Father, by learning to flirt with him, twisting him around her finger with words. Then she spreads her wings and try the knowledge on people who can respond in kind.
The fact that you are having fierce sexual fantasies about your Dad suggests that you have not completely developed your sexual maturity. You are scared in a sense to move outside of the protected environment and cling to the familiar.
I would suggest finding a good counsellor and talking through your experiences and fantasies. If nothing else, you won't feel isolated.
Alex
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[baby]

I am in no way a shrink...and only wish you would listen to Alex and a little of Brook. Are there things elsewhere, going on in your life. Things you need to work out? I try hard not to judge...therefore I can only give a helping ear...if needed!

Ummm Stu...I'm so trying to be serious here...so I'll be good...and pass the marshmallow's...
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[Pensuwana]

i was raised by a couple who claimed tobe my parents and taughtloving sex between family member was the way all families were, it trook me quite a while to find that isn;t so, but my feelings are as long as there is no problem getting preganat, if he'll agree, go for it, what better love cana girl find then that of her father, unless of course he's one who began raping you at 3like this filthy mother fucker did me
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there's something intoxicating about the bright red "fuck me" lipstick on a lovely woman that causes me to lose track of whatever I was doing..and pray she noticed me, especially if she's sensuously smoking a cigarette.

[baby]

[stu_ful]

JP eeeewwwwwwwwww!!!! Now I've got the image of you running around in my dad's underwear in my head. Ewwww!!! Ewwww!!! Ewwww!!! He hasn't washed those suckers yet and last night was taco night.


Thanks Baby. You're always there to give me something gooey to stick in my mouth. What better friend could a guy ask for? Well yes a rich nympho with a huge generous streak but I'm being nice here. You're still pretty high up there.


Pen, there is no excuse for rape no matter the age or the relationship. Which is one reason why people find incest so repulsive. In a parent child relationship there is always a matter of authority and guardianship which when put into a sexual context makes it very hard to see how that authority and guardianship is not being abused . As a fantasy this can be ignored or even subverted, which is partialy why as fantasy it can be particularly erotic, but in real life there is no doing so.

The rape you experienced was not about sexual feelings but was instead a blatent and heinous abuse of power and authority. However it is in no way able to break your spirit or your worth as a human being. You are indeed loved for who you are known to by your fellow lusties. Let that love shine as a candle in your soul.

[bushman69]

I don't know anything about the psychological aspects of incest but any relationship between consenting adults doesn't bother me. It can be mother-son, brother-sister, father-son, grandmother-grandchild for all I care. If they're adults it's up to them, and if they both consent, I say good luck to them. I guess that makes me a weirdo by most people's standards but I don't really care. Live and let live. I've seen in my own life, and the lives of others, how sex and love can totally fuck a person up. I can't imagine it being any worse with family. In fact, it might be better. I would think, if nothing else, if a family member was going to end an intimate relationship they might do it a bit more humanely than your average lover who moves on. We hear a lot about incest between adult family members and children. It makes big headlines. Incest between adults though we don't hear much about and I'm guessing there is more of it goes on than what people realize, and perhaps it often works quite well. Seems like I'm always seeing in the paper about some guy killing his girlfriend, or his wife, because she ditched him, or wanted to ditch him. Never have heard of a girl dying because she kicked her father or brother out of the bedroom but maybe it does happen. I don't know. Anyone else feel like I do on this or am I all alone?
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[Estrella22]

I think this is just an extreme fantasy, probably has a lot to do with how naughty the idea is. I don't think there is anything wrong with the fantasy as long as you can accept it as what it is, a fantasy.
I have had a couple dreams where I had sex with my father. I think he is a handsome man and wonderful but I have never fantasized about having sex with him while I was awake. I don't think there is anything wrong with me. I have a wonderful, mature sex life with my partner.
Maybe this is just a stage. There are a lot of stories out there with this theme so it can't be that unusual. I don't think anyone on here should judge you. This should be a safe place to share fantasizes. I would suggest enjoying the fantasy for a while, as long as you feel satisfied with the rest of your life.