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Alexandra_M
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Thank you, I look forward to it.
Alexa
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Ring
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If I may, is the ring in your avi from Gearessentials?
Warm Regards
Alexa |
Acutally, I found it at eXtreme restraints. I prefer the wider rings. I hope to spend a little more time here so perhaps we'll bump into one another again. |
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Gearjammer
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Choosing this to respond, since the other one was long and I didn't want to fool with it.
Welcome back, belated as it may be. |
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Alexandra_M
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| Posted: 1/15/2009 Post subject: |
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Welcome Ring,
once again. I do hope we see you around more often!
If I may, is the ring in your avi from Gearessentials?
Warm Regards
Alexa
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Ring
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Ramarkable is the fact that this is the first time I have noticed you. Welcome and have fun.
Alexa |
Yeah, I kinda sneak around and surprise ppl. You can usually find me "hanging" around the fetish threads.
Nice to meet you. |
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lovemymistress
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This is why I suck at being a Domme. I hate having to act sane.
Also one of the best indicators of how well you're doing as a Domme/Dom is your sub. A happy sub is the sign of a good Dom ... or an indication that they've done something that they'll be punished for later. heheheh |
That was funny but True Stu!!
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stu_ful
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This is why I suck at being a Domme. I hate having to act sane.
Also one of the best indicators of how well you're doing as a Domme/Dom is your sub. A happy sub is the sign of a good Dom ... or an indication that they've done something that they'll be punished for later. heheheh |
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cindy
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Hello All,
I am new to this forum and new to BDSM. I am a 28 yr old lesbian. I am looking for a sub. But until i find her, I am looking for pointers to help me be the best domme I can be. Any advice? |
I am sure she felt invisible after she left this thread. I am sorry I wasn't here, and I don't know how long I will be. But for now I am.
To be the best Domme you can, my advice would be to just be yourself. People into BDSM are people just like anyone else. Try to find a munch in your area. That is easy to find on the internet. Get educated about the lifestyle. As Nathan said, there are tons of books out there about the subject, as well as websites. The more educated you are about anything gives you a better understanding anyway, right?
It is just like any relationship. Or what any relationship should be like. Whether you are in the lifestyle or not. If your partner feels safe, and knows that she is in good hands with you and fully trusts you, then that is the ultimate.
Communication is the key to those things. Knowing what she wants to do, wants to try, that she maybe wants to try, or has no interest in trying at all are good starters before doing anything. Contracts would probably be a good idea as well.
Whatever the case, being safe, sane and consensual is the key.
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gabriella_raye
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Yes, Ring please feel free to eve start a new topic if you have something you care to discuss. We do have our serious moments and will give you an honest opinion.
Ramarkable is the fact that this is the first time I have noticed you. Welcome and have fun.
Alexa |
I object. I have as of yet to have a serious moment and all my opinions are biased and therefore inheritantly dishonest.  |
lmao
wait, this is me getting off topic again
we are serious
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gabriella_raye
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stu_ful
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Yes, Ring please feel free to eve start a new topic if you have something you care to discuss. We do have our serious moments and will give you an honest opinion.
Ramarkable is the fact that this is the first time I have noticed you. Welcome and have fun.
Alexa |
I object. I have as of yet to have a serious moment and all my opinions are biased and therefore inheritantly dishonest. |
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Alexandra_M
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Yes, Ring please feel free to eve start a new topic if you have something you care to discuss. We do have our serious moments and will give you an honest opinion.
Ramarkable is the fact that this is the first time I have noticed you. Welcome and have fun.
Alexa
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JustNathan
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| Hmm, another thread that went off track. Seems I've stumbled on to a pattern. |
This 'pattern' took you 2 years to stumble across?
There are quite a few of us here who feel as though we 'know' each other, and we are comfortable with cross-subject banter within threads. This is by no means intended to be intimidating or is it a direct intention to derail subjects being discussed. It's just a fact of life, particularly when others hop in and 'start new conversations', just as you have here.
Anyone is welcome to return to thread subjects at any time. Considering this was essentially a 'dead' thread - initial poster only made one post (ever), received one reply in the first month, one in the second month, then my reply 3 months later - which coincided with my return to the boards, it's not exactly surprising a couple of people welcomed me back and the thread bounced around from there... as have others.
Ring, if you have something to add to the thread subject, please feel free. I'm sure I'm not alone in reassuring you that we'd be happy to discuss it further.
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erotic section
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| Hmm, another thread that went off track. Seems I've stumbled on to a pattern. |
Feel free to redirect, Ring. |
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Ring
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